Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Life, The Universe, and Everything

The tension was unbearable...
"All right," said Deep Thought. "The Answer to the Great Question..."
"Yes..!"
"Of Life, the Universe and Everything..." said Deep Thought.
"Yes...!"
"Is..." said Deep Thought, and paused.
"Yes...!"
"Is..."
"Yes...!!!...?"
"Forty-two," said Deep Thought, with infinite majesty and calm.

- Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy


I have waited a very, very long time to be able to use the above quote in reference to myself.  Almost 30 years, in fact.  Ever since I first read the Hitchhiker's series.

Yesterday I turned 42.

I am now The Answer.  The magic number.

Maybe that means my luck will turn and I will find the job of my dreams - or, at the very least - a job that I don't absolutely hate, LOL.

After finally finding a job (one that I was enjoying immensely) back in May, a restructure at work has meant that a lack of physical office space has rendered my employment a logistical impossibility, so now I'm back on the job hunt again. 

Just what I needed.  (Where is that sarcasm font when you need it?)

There are still bills to pay, books and uniforms to buy for Cheyenne as she starts High School next year (yikes!), and I haven't even started shopping for Christmas presents yet.  No thanks, I do NOT want to hear how many shopping days left until Christmas.

In the meantime, I'll just kick back (between job applications) and enjoy being 42.  I might even re-read the Hitchhiker's series to celebrate.

Hopefully Life, the Universe and Everything is coming my way soon. 

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Remembering Birthdays

1989

Today would have been my Dad's 90th birthday, had cancer not taken him from us nearly twenty years ago.

It's not hard to imagine what he'd have been like at 90.  Probably not so much different from how he was at 70.  Just older.  He would have been proud to see me happily married and he would have loved having a granddaughter, I'm sure.  He would have been secretly pleased that like me, she also shares his love of camping, and of cats.

I will always miss him, but often it's the smallest things that bring that home to me...  Like stargazing with Cheyenne and remembering how my Dad would set up his telescope and point out constellations for my brother and I (most of which I have forgotten and need to look up).  Or counting how many seconds between the flash of lightning and the rumble of thunder to see how far off a storm is.  Do you think I can remember the formula for that?  My Dad knew.  If only I could still ask him.  Yes, I'm sure the answer is out there for me to Google, but it's just not the same.

Happy Birthday Dad.  I love you

July 1976

Monday, February 3, 2014

Life begins...?

Apparently, if you believe what the popular adage says, "Life begins at 40."  Wait, what?  What exactly have the last 39 years been?  Not life?  Perhaps a mere existence then.

Well, three and a bit months in and I'm still waiting for this "new beginning".  Come at me Life. I'm ready.

...No ?

Thought as much.

Nothing has changed.  Inside, I don't feel any older (or wiser, lol).  I'm still married to a wonderful (if sometimes exasperating) man, still have a daughter with attitude, still have a mortgage, still looking for work, still enjoying the company of my friends...

So, I'm fairly sure this "life begins" business is just BS to bolster the spirits of those who are depressed because turning 40 apparently means they are now OLDBut you know what?  I'm ok with it being BS because I'm ok with being 40.  Age is not a number, it's a state of mind.

Being 40 does not make me feel old.  The fact that Cheyenne is now 10 and started Grade 5 this year?  That makes me feel old.

Photoboard of my first 40 years.



Monday, October 24, 2011

O is for October, a month of "O"s

O is for nearly Over.

This means that all our birthdays are done and dusted for another year.

Cheyenne turned 8 in September.  She celebrated by having two of her friends sleep over (OMG, sooo won’t be doing that again for a few years!), and by getting her ears pierced.  (O is for just a tiny Ouch.)  She was very brave and had them done one at a time.



I turned 38 a week and a half ago; which is a rather unremarkable milestone.  About the only remarkable thing about it is that I was on Fraser Island at the time, lol.

O is also for the Big Four-Oh…and also for Old (Bahaha, I had to put that in). Yep, Steve turned 40 just last week.  You know you’re getting old when your idea of a birthday bash is a quiet bbq with a handful of friends, lol.

O is for Overdue.  Trip to Fraser Island, that is.  Finally, after all these years of going to Rainbow Beach, I have managed to actually go to Fraser Island for a holiday.  Technically, I have stood on the shoreline of the island a few times when we’ve gone over in the tinnie flicking for flathead, but that isn’t “visiting Fraser Island”.   At the Rainbow Beach Fishing Comp earlier this year Steve won (well, technically his dad did, but it was Steve’s fish) barge transfers and one night’s accommodation for 4 adults at Eurong Resort.  So we paid for 3 extra nights (they didn’t charge us any extra for Cheyenne) and went over with his parents.  The plan was to do the touristy stuff, so no fishing rods were taken. (shock horror).  Although Steve has been to Fraser Is. many times on fishing trips, he hasn’t gone to most of the tourist spots, so this was a first for him as well.

 Amusing ourselves with self-portraits on the s-l-o-w barge trip, lol.

 Ocean views from our top floor balcony!

We stopped at the wreck of the Maheno (along with every single tour group and carload of backpackers on the island), went to the Champagne Pools (so named because of the frothy bubbles when the waves hit the rocks) and drove up the Eastern beach as far as Nkala Rocks. 


  
We stopped several times at Eli Creek, which was fabulously icy and refreshing on the hot days.  Most of the freshwater creek is only knee deep but there are a few deeper holes you can take a dip in.



Another day we did the Southern Lakes Scenic Drive and then on to Lake McKenzie, where Steve and Cheyenne went for a swim, but the rest of us decided it was too chilly. We also walked along the boardwalk beside the creek at Central Station.

 The sand is so white at Lake Birrabeen and the water is crystal clear.

  
The above sign post cracked me up.  
Don't even think about camping on the edge of Lake Boomanjin.   
(Actually, as this lake is not crystal clear, has no nice beach and is, to be honest, pretty swampy and manky on the only side accessible by road, I don't think the sign is really neccessary.)

 Lake McKenzie has crystal clear water and reflects the colour of the sky.

We saw dingoes (although not as many as you’d expect), whales in the distance (I sooo need a better camera with a telephoto lens *sigh*), a starfish in a rock pool, and a camera-shy echidna hurrying across a track.   

Someone had carelessly discarded some fish frames on the beach, attracting a dingo.  We pulled up alongside to watch it.  A handful of gulls circled, trying to steal some fish.  One got a little too close and the dingo asserted its claim on the fish.  While we watched, it jumped up and snatched the gull out of the air.  Once it was satisfied that the gull was dead, the dingo calmly returned to the piece of fish.  Let that be a warning to other gulls. Don't try to steal food from a dingo.



We were blown away by the amount of devastation caused by the recent bushfires.  Such a huge area of the island is now black and ghostly. Luckily, a lot of Australian native plants need fire to regenerate, so the area won’t stay black for long.  The grass trees seem to be the quickest to recover.

All in all, it was a lovely holiday, albeit far to short for my liking.  It is so nice to go places and actually see something other than bait and fishing gear.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

100 Not Out !

My Grandma (on my mother's side) turned 100 on the 29th of March, so we had a small family morning tea for her at the nursing home on the Sunday before.

She is quite frail, is bedridden and has almost no vision due to glaucoma and therefore wasn't able to enjoy her own party, but she was awake for most of it.

It wasn't a large turnout, as the family is scattered around the country now, but there were three of her children, eight of her grandchildren and two of her great-grandchildren there to celebrate, and another one of my cousins and his family visited her on her actual birthday the next day.

Here she is on the day, with two of her great-grandchildren, my daughter Cheyenne and my cousin Jodi-May's daughter Gemma.


Happy Birthday Grandma!

Longevity seems to run in my family, as my other Gran (my father's mother) lived to be 101, although she was far more sprightly on her 100th birthday.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Another year older...

It's nearly the end of October.

Both Steve and I have had our birthdays without much fanfare.

I turned 36 a week and a half ago, and Steve turned 38 five days later. We bought ourselves a GPS unit for the car for our trip to Cardwell, and decided that it would be our birthday present to each other.

Steve then got me a couple of scratchies (one from Cheyenne and one from him) to go in the cards, and I did the same for him. I won $15 on one of mine. Steve hasn't scratched either of his yet. Maybe he thinks if he keeps them long enough they might change into big winners, lol.

I also received a decorative handbag dangle thingy from Kaylene, $50 from my brother to go towards buying some new summer clothes, and my mum gave me some money to start me off with fixing up my teeth at the dentist. I'm not altogether sure just how far the money will get me, as I'm positive I'm going to need a mouthful of fillings at the very least, but I have an appointment at the end of the week, so I'll find out soon enough :(